Random Acts of Kindness Day is an unofficial holiday celebrated each year on February 17. The purpose of this special day is to urge people to be kind to each other, especially those they don’t know, without any specific reason.

The philosophy behind Random Acts of Kindness Day is altruism, which is selfless concern for the welfare of others. A traditional virtue and a core aspect of many religions, altruism is basically the opposite of selfishness.

Altruism concentrates on the desire to do good or help others without reward. Although the key to altruistic behavior is not being concerned with reward, doing good does have its benefits. Those who perform random acts of kindness often find that doing so reduces stress and boosts their self-esteem, leading to better physical and emotional health.

As you perform random acts of kindness for others, you will likely find that some people wish to return the favor. Instead of accepting their offer, ask them to “pay it forward” instead. The phrase “pay it forward” refers to the idea of requesting that a kindness be repaid by having it done to others instead. In this small, simple way, you can encourage others to keep the kindness flowing!


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    • Thanks for sharing your comment with us today and for letting us know a little bit more about you, Jon! We hope you have a WONDERful birthday this year! :-)

  1. I think random acts is from your heart not your mouth Wonderopolis thank you soo much for these cute videos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • How true, Wonder Friend Jazlyn! Acts of kindness do come from the heart, and sometimes we communicate how we feel by speaking! Thank you so much for sharing your awesome comment with us! Have a super weekend! :)

  2. Paying it forward is like the person that did something to you is giving it back I think the best thing that you should do is feed the hungry and spend time with the lonely I thing it is just LOVELY.

    • We really appreciate all your awesome ideas for paying it forward, Jazlyn! Giving back, or paying it forward, is a super way to make others smile. We always want to treat others the way we’d like to be treated, and respect and kindness is always important! Thanks for sharing your WONDERful comment, Jazlyn! We couldn’t agree more! :)

    • Hello Jazlyn, we are so glad you’re back! Thanks for visiting us again and keeping a smile on our faces! Have a WONDERful Sunday! :)

    • Happy Easter to you, too, Jazlyn! We think there are lots of ways to do something nice for someone else. Sometimes it’s smiling at someone you don’t know, sometimes it’s making breakfast for your family instead of the other way around. What have you done something for someone else that has made their day? :)

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Have you ever wondered…

  • What is a random act of kindness?
  • What is altruism?
  • What does it mean to “pay it forward”?

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We hope you enjoyed today’s random Wonder of the Day! Check out the following activities with a friend or family member:

  • OK…it’s time to put what you’ve learned into action. It’s time to pay it forward! There are thousands of things you can do to celebrate Random Acts of Kindness Day. Some may cost money, but there are also many, many things you can do to brighten someone’s day for free. Just think about how great it would be if everyone took some time to make someone smile. The kindness could go on and on. So do your part and get the ball rolling! Be creative and come up with some great ideas of your own! When it comes to kindness, there’s no limit to the number of ways you can make a difference in someone’s life. Here are some ideas you might want to give a whirl:
    • At a drive-thru, pay for the meal of the person behind you.
    • At the gas station, offer to pump gas for someone.
    • At the grocery store, buy some supplies for a local food bank or animal shelter.
    • Around the neighborhood, rake the yard or cut the grass for an elderly neighbor.
    • At the hospital, visit someone in recovery or make a meal for a family dealing with illness.
    • At school, tell a teacher how much you appreciate all they do for you.
  • How has the kindness of someone else made a difference in your life? Write a brief story about your experiences with others doing kind acts for you. Think about the important people in your life and the roles they play. Can you remember any unexpected kindnesses that others have bestowed upon you? It could be as simple as a compliment or as major as a scholarship. Make sure your story explains how the event unfolded and how it made you feel.
  • Up for a challenge? Go to The Random Acts of Kindness Foundation to read some heartwarming stories and discover some great ideas for ways to inspire people to practice kindness and pass it on to others.

Still Wondering

We hope today’s wonder has inspired you to keep the kindness flowing. Think you can keep it up for 100 days in a row? Use ReadWriteThink’s 100 Acts of Kindness chart to keep track of your progress. We know you can do it!


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